I used to chase after the feeling of being loved. But not any more. I will wait patiently, have faith and believe that I will find the perfect person for me. Because if you chase after it, you'll end up making mistakes, and hurting others. Wait, and you'll save yourself from a lot of heartaches and pain. And when you find love, make it beautiful. Save your love. Save it for someone that you know you'll spend your lifetime with, someone worthy to be your other half.
Marriages. Something that some people may not look forward to, and what some people just can't wait to get to. The legal union of a man and woman as husband and wife.
"True Meaning of Marriage"
"The true meaning of marriage is love. By love, I mean not just what we feel but what we do. Love just as a feeling is very flimsy, an up and down roller coaster. Love is an action! In order for it to become the ultimate force and for us to rediscover the true meaning of marriage, love has to be unconditional. You are not looking for acceptance or validation. You are giving of yourself to another not because of them, but because of your values. A death to ones self so that another may live and benefit from your sacrifice.
This is not an easy road to walk. But it is the most rewarding road however. An old Buddhist saying goes like this, 'I want peace.' If you take your ego (I) and your desires (want) out of the equation, i.e., the self, you will have only peace left. The true meaning of marriage is expressing love unconditionally to another. It is an unstoppable force that can endure anything. How do you find it? Within yourself. You have to draw strength from you. Neither seeking validation nor acceptance, just seeking the opportunity to show love."
I was just browsing through people's blogs and I came across Dena Bahrin's blog. It's filled with the stories of her path through life, but my favourite story would be about her marriage. Her beautiful marriage. Akak, I wish you all the best for your life, and your husband's. I wish you happiness and may your relationship last till Jannah.
Well....what are you waiting for? Read her story!
http://denakamarulbahrin.blogspot.co.uk/2012_05_01_archive.html
What inspired me about them is that I had the same feelings about 'love after marriage' as her. And as this experience changed her views on love after marriage, she changed my feelings about it too; as before, I would never think twice about love after marriage, but now, I find it to be beautiful. Of course, it won't be the same for everyone, but it proved to be beautiful for this very lucky girl. And I hope that when the time comes for me, I hope that it will be just as beautiful.
"Someone who really loves you will show you they want you, will prove that they need you, will remind you they love you. Will put you in the list, " To be in heaven,together,forever." -dena bahrin
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